Contrary to popular belief, being an author doesn't always bring in the big dollars. In fact, some months, I'm lucky to earn enough to buy a cup of coffee, maybe two. Of course, there are better months, but not as often as I'd like.
So, as you can imagine, that means I have to hold down a "normal" job to help pay the bills. I work part time in an office and also run a proofreading business with a friend of mine. On top of that, I have my book review blog, my writing, and of course, spending time with the family to fit in there too. The only thing is, there aren't enough hours in the day!
I wish I could be one of those authors who can burn the midnight oil, but alas, my brain has other things in mind, and by other things, I mean sleep. Though, my brain can be fickle sometimes and has been known to make me contemplate life's great mysteries at 3 AM. This is not ideal. Especially when business has been booming of late. There have been some amazing books fired my way over the last few months, and I love being trusted with these book babies, and helping them to shine. It really is the perfect job. Add to that the joy I get from writing and producing my own book babies, and you have a winning combination right there. However...
Trying to find that balance between home life when you work from home, isn't actually easy. I find it hard to shut off from the job - characters decide to speak to me at all hours of the day, and they will keep hounding me until I jot those ideas down. I sometimes struggle to step away and take a break, feeling like I just need to do this little bit more, and then I can relax. I find myself comparing my schedule to other authors, wondering how they can get so many words down each day and still function as a normal human being, mother, and wife. Silly, I know, but I can't help myself.
Yesterday, I took my daughter to a friend's house for a birthday party. My phone had no service while I was out there, and you know what? No one died. I spent a few hours chatting to some awesome ladies, watching the kids play, and just enjoying life without my phone attached to my hip. I didn't feel compelled to keep checking notifications, or see if I had any new jobs coming through. It was nice to just step away and not worry about the world for a minute. To just be me.
Sometimes it can be good to have these little reminders in life. Don't be so busy that life passes you by. Take time out to just be you. Take time out to hang with your family and friends. Be present. Make memories.
I am hereby making this my goal for the year: To spend at least one day each week where I take a step back, and enjoy this beautiful life I have been blessed with. Who's with me?